THIS or THAT?
Step 1: WRITE THE DECISION DOWN ON PAPER to make it concrete and visual.
Step 2: WRITE DOWN WHAT MY INITIAL FEELINGS ARE (without asking anyone else for advice yet). I want to know what I feel and think on my own so I know that my decision is not soley based on pleasing others, etc.
Step 3: CONSULT with someone close (SPOUSE, PARENTS, Etc) and get their input.
Step 4: Revisit step 2 and REWRITE any NEW FEELINGS or OPTIONS or IDEAS and PROS/CONS. Ask myself "What's the worst that could happen?" After I figure out this, things usually aren't so unknown and scary.
Step 5: SLEEP ON IT if possible for a few days (I usually get excited about stuff and later think it's totally dumb, so this is so important for me)
Step 6: PICK A DECISION, and decide to learn from it even if it ends up not working out.
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